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5 Signs You’re in a One-Sided Friendship, According to Experts

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Welcome to Asking for a Friend, a weekly series dedicated to solving the messy, awkward, and confusing parts of modern friendship. Because truth is, our platonic relationships are often the most complicated. Send us your friendship dilemmas here, and we might feature one in a future column.


Most friendships will never be truly 50/50, but at the very least they run on an unspoken agreement: both people show up, reach out, and add some fuel to the tank that keeps the engine going. If that balance consistently feels off—not just once or twice, but over the course of weeks or months—it’s hard not to wonder whether something deeper is going on.

You might notice in small but telling ways: Looking back at your messages, it dawns on you that you’re initiating every conversation. They call, if at all, only when they’re bored or when it’s convenient. And then there’s the sharper sting of noticing how effortlessly they find time for other people—just not for you (a surprisingly common frustration you can read more about here).

To be fair, life can get in the way—people get busy, schedules clash, and our friends can’t always be as available as we’d like—but that doesn’t make it any less frustrating or stop you from feeling resentful when you’re waiting days for a simple “How are you?” But how do you know if this is a temporary lapse or a more unhealthy one-sided friendship? Here are the biggest red flags therapists want you to watch out for.

1. They never call or text first.

Look through your texts and DMs: Are you always the first to send a message? When’s the last time they suggested hanging out? You can also experiment by not reaching out to see how long it takes for them to initiate contact. If weeks (or months) go by without a word, their silence may indicate who’s really holding this connection together.

“At a minimum, a good friend (even a busy one) will periodically check in out of curiosity and interest,” Tiana Leeds, LMFT, a therapist based in Santa Barbara, California, tells SELF. After all, someone who truly cares about you should want to know what’s going on in your life, which is why if they consistently don’t try to get in touch (or only expect you to do so), they may not be genuinely interested in your world.

China threatens the EU if it adopts a “made in Europe” plan

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Beijing threatened, Monday April 27, to take measures against the European Union if the latter adopts without taking into account Chinese positions a law aimed at reindustrializing Europe and which it considers discriminatory.

The so-called “industrial acceleration” bill presented on March 4 by the European Commission, the EU executive, will have to be approved by member states and the European Parliament.

The Chinese Ministry of Commerce said in a statement that it had submitted its comments to the Commission on April 24 and expressed its “serious concerns”.

“China will carefully follow the legislative process” and “stands ready for dialogue,” the ministry said.

“If the EU ignores China’s suggestions and insists on passing this text, thereby harming the interests of Chinese companies, China will have no choice but to take countermeasures,” he warned.

The text would require companies in sectors deemed strategic to “a number or percentage of critical components originating in Europe” when they benefit from public funds, according to the vice-president of the European Commission, Frenchman Stéphane Séjourné.

The text targets the automobile industry, carbon-free energy technologies (solar panels, batteries, heat pumps, nuclear power plants, etc.), heavy industries.

Without being named, China seems clearly targeted. Europeans have long denounced the unfair competition exercised, according to them, by heavily subsidized Chinese companies.

The text “imposes numerous restrictions on foreign investments in four emerging strategic sectors: batteries, electric vehicles, photovoltaics and crucial raw materials; it establishes exclusive clauses of + EU origin + in the award of public contracts and public support policies”, says the Chinese ministry. “Chinese investors will face discrimination,” he assures.

Yes, Your Feet Age. Dermal Fillers Can Help

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Barefoot walks on the beach. A day in their favorite high heels. A long training walk ahead of the Camano de Santiago. These are the goals—big and small—of women undergoing foot filler treatments.

Using an injectable filler—such as hyaluronic acid or body fat—to add padding to sore feet is not new, though it is gaining in popularity. As early as the 1960s, medical-grade silicone has been used to puff up padding deflated by age, years of wear and tear, and fashionable footwear, especially high heels. All of this puts intense pressure on the balls of the feet—otherwise known as the metatarsals.

Over time, the fatty cushion on the bottom of your feet dissipates. Fat pad atrophy affects 30% of people over the age of 60. Without that natural cushion, the bones in your feet come into closer contact with the ground, which causes a deep bruise-like pain in the heels or balls of the feet when walking barefoot or standing for long periods.

For some perspective, look at the doughy wonders that are baby feet and compare them to yours. As we age, wear and tear breaks down that plush tissue. And if you put your feet to heavy use, you’ll wear down that cushion quicker. Some of that internal cushioning can be restored—even if just temporarily—with the injection of dermal fillers.

“It’s getting very popular because people are already familiar with it for aesthetic [uses],” says Ben Pearl, DPM, a podiatrist at Arlington Foot and Ankle in Arlington, Virginia. Dr. Pearl specializes in sports medicine and treats endurance athletes looking to restore cushion lost in their feet from pounding the pavement.

A promising treatment to offload pain

Patients don’t have just one choice for injectables, though. Many of the same options available for cosmetic use have also shown promise for feet. There’s hyaluronic acid filler, which adds physical volume and cushioning, and calcium hydroxylapatite, such as Radiesse, which adds firm volume while also promoting new collagen growth. Sometimes human body fat is used as the injectable, known as adipose tissue, a practice that is quickly becoming the preferred method.

“[A fat injection] actually recruits your body to rebuild the fat pad in that area so it has a much longer duration,” says Anne Sharkey, DPM, of Soley Podiatry in Austin. Fat allografts from brands like Liposana and Leneva may last as long as two years, compared to hyaluronic acid fillers, which typically need a touch up in six to nine months.

Jo Malone London Beach Blossom Cologne Review Back 2026

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Jo Malone London Beach Blossom Cologne Review

If you love a fresh, beachy fragrance that feels effortless rather than obvious, Jo Malone London Beach Blossom Cologne is definitely worth having on your radar and it has just coming back for 2026.

This is one of those scents that really captures that breezy, just stepped off the beach feeling, but in a very chic, understated way. It’s light, slightly creamy, and quietly uplifting. The kind of fragrance that works beautifully in warm weather without ever feeling too much.

If you missed it the first time around, Jo Malone Beach Blossom Cologne 2026 is definitely worth a closer look.

What is Jo Malone London Beach Blossom?

Jo Malone London Beach Blossom Cologne Review
Jo Malone London Beach Blossom Cologne Review

This fragrance has been designed to instantly transport you to warmer climes. Think beaches (obviously), warm sun on your skin, and closing your eyes and waking up in the Seychelles (not that I’d know what that is like!).

Jo Malone London say:

Pack your bags for a summer escape. On the idyllic palm-fringed beaches of the Seychelles, encounter the rare coco de mer. Basking in tropical sunlight, the sea coconut’s sculptural form inspires the fresh solar scent of Beach Blossom Cologne.

A refreshing twist of coconut water carried on the breeze, meeting the sparkling clarity of lime and mint, wrapped in the allure of tonka bean.

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The Notes

Top Note: Lime – zesty freshness

Heart Note: Coconut Water – light and refreshing

Base Note: Tonka Bean – warm accents of vanilla and almond

My Review

Jo Malone London Beach Blossom
Jo Malone London Beach Blossom

This is a lovely beachy fragrance, and I can’t really think of anything similar in the Jo Malone London collection. It has creamy coconut with a little bit of a suntan lotion vibe which I always find really comforting.

The lime and mint give it a kind of summer cocktail feel at the start but there’s also something about it that reminds me of the Jo Malone Wood Sage & Sea Salt, although that one conjures up a completely different type of beach – more British, less tropical. Beach Blossom is all about a sun-kissed summer getaway.

First Impressions

Jo Malone London Beach Blossom packaging
Jo Malone London Beach Blossom packaging

The bottle is understated, and chic, but I have to say, I do really prefer the square Jo Malone bottles, as opposed to these rounded ones. But that’s just a personal preference!

What does Jo Malone Beach Blossom smell like?

At first spritz, Beach Blossom has a fresh and airy citrus brightness that’s really enlivening and uplifting. It is softly sweet, but not in an overpowering way and it is freshly floral rather than sugary.

Everything softens out to a lovely creamy, skin-like warmth that feels super comforting with those vibes of sunshine and sea salt on your skin.

Longevity & Performance

This isn’t a huge fragrance, you can definitely smell it on yourself, but it isn’t overpowering at all. I found that it lasts really well on my skin. I could still smell it on my wrist about 6 hours after spritzing which I was pretty impressed with.

Who Will Love It?

If you love breezy, sun-drenched florals with a touch of salty skin warmth, this one will be for you. It’s chic and feminine, and combines summer freshness with richer creamy notes that give you that cashmere hug feeling. I think this will be a real crowd pleaser.

Final Verdict

Beach Blossom Cologne is a gorgeous summery fragrance that isn’t too heady and keeps things nice and radiant and fresh. I think this would be an easy blind buy as it ticks all the boxes for a summer scent that still has cosy vibes, and it’s limited edition so you might want to snap it up before it’s gone.

If you are looking for some more new fragrances this season check out my reviews:

Where to buy it

Jo Malone London Beach Blossom Cologne is available now for £90 for 50ml and £128 for 100ml via the links below:

Millie Bobby Brown is leaving the UK for Enola Holmes 3

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Extra, extra, read all about it! Enola Holmes 3 release date confirmed!

Alright, now that we’ve got your attention, it’s time to get into it. Netflix has just dropped first-look images from the third instalment of the action-adventure franchise. Starring Millie Bobby Brown as the titular Enola Holmes, the films follow Sherlock Holmes’ equally clever younger sister as she solves crimes with the help of the very dashing Tewkesbury (Louis Partridge).

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Released in 2022, Enola Holmes 2 saw the protagonist open her own detective agency and solve a mystery inspired by the 1888 Matchgirls’ Strike in London.

Netflix has also dropped the official release date and cast list, making this a very exciting day for mystery fans everywhere.

Here’s everything we know about Enola Holmes 3including what it will be about, where it’s set, and what twists might be in store for Enola this time around…

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What is the plot of Enola Holmes 3?

Enola Holmes is ready to solve her next mystery… and walk down the aisle.

According to Netflix: “Adventure chases detective Enola Holmes to Malta, where personal and professional dreams collide on a case more tangled and treacherous than any she has faced before,” the movie’s official synopsis states. “As the private detective juggles the new case and the next stages of her relationship with Tewkesbury, the game is truly afoot.”

Grecian dresses are the easiest way to look formal but chic this summer

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Grecian dresses. An ancient style secret that reemerges every so often, bringing back the elegance of yesteryear into current conversations. Long before catwalks existed, this fashion symbol of classical Greece established the ultimate recipe for achieving sophistication without compromising on comfort.

Experts of proportion and beautiful architecture, ancient Greeks figured out how to drape fabric in order to create harmony between body, light and form. Delicate but reliable, their silhouette was seen as serene and powerful, and that’s exactly what we need from a perfect summer dress. These aren’t just clothes – they represent a mindset of understanding beauty that still feels magnetic thousands of years later. And that’s why Grecian dresses retain so much power – they were birthed by a civilisation that constructed the basis of aesthetics as we know today.

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When trying to understand what makes Grecian dresses so special, we have to start with the pleats. They are manipulated around the body to accentuate the figure, sometimes loose to allow for shadow to create its magic, other times pressed tightly to build a 3D effect. Reimagined for today’s context, this classic concept is being revisited by designers without changing a lot. Perhaps it’s a simple shift in the neckline that adds a bit of flair, or a bright coloured material that makes it undeniably modern.

There are so many incredible Grecian dresses on the market right now, and – as proven by recent red carpet appearances from Wunmi Mosaku and Coco Jones – they are truly the chicest way to approach occasion dressing this spring and summer. Whether you wear them with delicate flat sandals, a pair of espadrilles or an elegant heeled ballerina, they will make you feel sophisticated and effortless. A mix of history, fluidity and distinction is truly irresistible.

Here are nine of our favourite Grecian dresses you can shop right now.


Alberta Ferretti’s classic cream halterneck

This dress has something majestic about it without losing the element of ease. The halterneck top feels architectural, while the loose draping along the sides elongates the figure. Executed in the perfect shade of cream, the dress feels appropriate for both minimalists and maximalists – a truly versatile styling icon. For those looking for simplicity, add a soft drop gold earring and some barely-there heeled sandals. If you prefer an eclectic approach to formal dressing, layer some chunky wooden bangles. Finish the outfit off with a pair of brown platform sandals and a mini basket bag.

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WHY YOUR SCALP IS SABOTAGING YOUR HAIR (AND WHAT MOST MEN GET WRONG) ~ THE MALE GROOMING REVIEW

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The Overlooked Cause of Thinning Hair in Men

Most men assume hair loss starts at the follicle.

It doesn’t.

It starts at the scalp.

And if your scalp isn’t in good condition—too oily, inflamed, irritated, or constantly sweating—your hair never really stands a chance. You can have “perfect genetics” on paper and still watch your hair thin slowly over time.

The frustrating part? Most men don’t even realise their scalp is the problem.


The Modern Scalp Problem No One Talks About

Take a typical day.

You wake up, shower quickly, maybe use a generic shampoo, rush out the door. By midday, your scalp feels slightly greasy. By evening, it’s either oily, itchy, or tight.

Sound familiar?

This isn’t random. It’s the result of a few very common issues:

  • Overactive oil (sebum) production

  • Sweat buildup (especially around the crown and hairline)

  • Product residue clogging follicles

  • Low-grade inflammation you can’t see—but your hair can “feel”

Individually, these seem harmless. Together, they create a hostile environment for healthy hair growth.


Oily Scalp ≠ Healthy Hair

There’s a persistent myth that an oily scalp is a “good sign” because it keeps hair moisturised.

In reality, excess oil can suffocate the scalp.

When sebum builds up, it mixes with dead skin cells and environmental debris. This forms a thin film over the scalp, which can:

  • Block hair follicles

  • Disrupt the natural growth cycle

  • Increase shedding over time

  • Trigger itching and irritation

Even worse, oily environments can encourage the growth of certain microbes that contribute to dandruff and inflammation.


The Sweat Factor (And Why It Matters More Than You Think)

Some men sweat heavily from the scalp—even in cool environments.

This isn’t just uncomfortable—it can actively work against your hair.

Constant moisture:

  • Weakens the scalp barrier

  • Encourages irritation

  • Breaks down the balance of the scalp microbiome

  • Leaves salt residue that dries and stresses the skin

If your scalp often feels damp, sticky, or “overheated,” that’s not neutral—it’s a stress signal.


The Inflammation Link

Here’s where things get more serious.

Chronic, low-level scalp inflammation is one of the most overlooked drivers of hair thinning.

You won’t necessarily see redness or flakes. But beneath the surface, inflammation can:

  • Disrupt nutrient delivery to follicles

  • Shorten the growth phase of hair

  • Lead to weaker, finer strands

  • Increase daily shedding

Think of it like poor soil. Even if the seed is good, growth is compromised.


The Grooming Mistakes Making It Worse

Most men try to fix scalp issues—but accidentally make them worse.

Common mistakes include:

Overwashing with harsh shampoos

Strips natural oils → triggers rebound oil production

Using heavy styling products daily

Builds residue → clogs follicles

Ignoring scalp care altogether

Focusing only on the hair itself

Washing at the wrong times

Leaving sweat and oil sitting on the scalp for hours

It’s not about doing more. It’s about doing the right things.


What a Healthy Scalp Actually Feels Like

Most men don’t know what “normal” is supposed to feel like.

A healthy scalp is:

  • Neutral (not itchy, tight, or greasy)

  • Dry to the touch—but not flaky

  • Calm, with no tingling or irritation

  • Consistent throughout the day

If your scalp changes noticeably between morning and evening, that’s usually a sign something’s off.


Fix the Environment, Not Just the Hair

If you want to improve hair quality—or slow down thinning—the focus has to shift.

From hair… to scalp.

Start with the basics:

  • Use a gentle, non-stripping shampoo

  • Avoid heavy, pore-clogging products

  • Rinse after sweating (even if you don’t fully wash)

  • Keep the scalp clean, but not over-dried

  • Be consistent rather than aggressive

Small changes here often make a bigger difference than most people expect.


The Bigger Picture

Hair doesn’t grow in isolation.

It grows from a living system—one that responds to stress, inflammation, and environment.

Ignoring the scalp while focusing on “hair growth” is like watering a plant without checking the soil.

It might survive for a while.

But it won’t thrive.


Final Thought

Before jumping straight to treatments, routines, or expensive fixes, take a step back and look at the foundation.

Because in many cases, the issue isn’t just the hair.

It’s the environment you’re asking it to grow in.


6 Best Detangler Sprays of 2026 for Silky Smooth Hair

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Frequently asked questions

Why does my hair get tangled?

Tangles usually occur due to raised hair cuticles (which should lay flat). This can happen due to your natural hair texture, dryness, or environmental stressors like wind, friction from your pillowcase, or pollution—your cuticles can catch on each other like Velcro, Small says, causing tangles. Other factors, like how long your hair is and how much chemical processing your hair has been through, can also play a role in how often your strands knot, he adds.

What does a detangler spray do?

“These treatments work by smoothing the cuticle and adding ‘slip,’ which drastically reduces friction between strands,” Small says. This process makes your hair more manageable while also preventing the breakage that can come with brushing your strands, he explains. Prowant adds that a detangler spray can also stop split ends from developing, hydrate your hair, and make it more elastic. Some can even calm your scalp and provide a protective barrier from heat and UV light, she says.

How do I use a detangler spray?

Small suggests using your detangler spray before you get in the shower, since “hair is at its most durable when it’s dry.” (The motions you go through while washing your hair can actually make any existing knots worse, he adds.) Spritz the product onto dry hair, focusing on the mid-lengths to ends, and brush it through using a wide-tooth comb or a flexible brush, he says, starting at the ends and working your way up. Then, hop in the shower and use your shampoo and conditioner as you normally would. If your detangler spray has heat protection, you can give it another spritz after you step out of the shower, before you style it. For the record, anyone can use a detangler spray, but they’re even more important for people with long or fragile hair, Small says.

Meet the experts

  • Jay Small, a hairstylist and cofounder of Arey, based in Los Angeles
  • Michele Aquino, a hairstylist based in Riverdale, New York
  • Sean Michael, a hairstylist based in Boston
  • Vince Spinnato, a cosmetic chemist based in Capistrano Beach, California
  • Marisa Garshick, MD, a board-certified dermatologist based in New York City
  • Carrie Prowant, a hair-extension specialist and Keranique brand ambassador based in Bettendorf, Iowa
  • Margarita Lolis, MD, a board-certified dermatologist and Mohs surgeon based in New Jersey

How we test and review products

When Allure tests a product, our editors look at it from every angle in an effort to best serve you. We review ingredients, scrutinize brand claims, and, when necessary, examine peer-reviewed scientific and medical studies. In addition to testing each and every product that’s included in each and every review, we rely on experts who shape their fields, including dermatology, cosmetic chemistry, and medicine, to help us vet the ingredients and formulas.

For our list of the best detangler sprays, we considered each product’s performance across five primary categories: product ingredients and efficacy, packaging, fragrance, texture, and product wear. Every product was determined to have excelled in each category by our editorial team, which is composed of in-house writers and editors as well as contributors—along with special consideration from board-certified dermatologists. To learn more information on our reporting and testing processes, read our complete reviews process and methodology page.

Our staff and testers

A beauty product is a personal purchase. You might be searching for a face cream to address persistent dryness or a new nail product to add to your Sunday self-care routine; you may simply be browsing around for the latest launches to hit the hair market. No matter what you seek or your individual needs and concerns, Allure wants to ensure that you love anything we recommend in our stories. We believe that having a diverse team of writers and editors—in addition to the wide range of outside testers and industry experts we regularly call upon—is essential to reaching that goal.

After all, can we really say a skin-care product is the “best” for people over 50 if the only testers we’ve solicited opinions from folks who have yet to hit 30? Can we honestly deem a high-end diffuser worthy of your hard-earned cash if it’s never been tested on curls? We’re proud that our staff spans a wide range of ages, skin tones, hair textures, genders, and backgrounds, which means that we are able to fairly assess any beauty product that comes into the beauty closet.

Now, watch the Forbidden Fruits cast spill secrets after sipping the truth serum:

How to heal cracked heels for summer, according to experts

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When are cracked heels worse?

Often, when we think of dry skin, we think of winter when the air is cold, and temperatures indoors and out are fluctuating, putting our skin through a lot. But when it comes to feet, Lynn explains that the summer season is the worst. “When we switch to wearing sandals, it may come as a surprise that the increased airflow around our feet can actually lead to dryness of the skin.” Our activities in the summer also contribute to dryness. Things like spending time on the beach and walking barefoot can have an exfoliating effect as we walk, making our skin feel smoother but also more prone to dryness, Lynn explains.

Who is more prone to dry, cracked feet?

If you’re someone who has dry facial skin, hair or nails, we’re sorry to say that your heels are probably more prone to dryness, too. “To help this, it is essential to prioritise moisturising routines after bathing or showering, as well as every morning and night, to maintain softer skin,” says Lynn.

“It is particularly crucial for people with diabetes to take extra precautions and ensure proper foot care, as they may have reduced sensation in their feet,” she warns. “By keeping their feet well-hydrated, they can help prevent cracked heels, which could potentially lead to open wounds,” which, in some cases, cause infection.

Ways to prevent cracked heels?

The answer is pretty simple, actually: give your feet the same care as your face. OK, not exactly the same, we’re not asking you to do a 10-step routine on your feet. But at the bare minimum, moisturise them a few times a week.

Moisturise

To keep them in tip-top shape, “I always recommend applying a foot cream both in the morning and at night,” says Lynn. You can target the areas that are most dry like the heels, too. This combination of hard-working foot cream ingredients helps keep the skin of your feet well-moisturised, ensuring their overall health. “Use a good moisturiser at least once a day that contains urea, which is a gentle chemical skin softener and is great at hydrating the skin rapidly,” says Andrew Gladstone, podiatrist, MCRPod and founder of City Chiropody. We like Mavala’s Hydro-Repairing Foot Cream, and Eucerin’s UreaRepair Plus 10% Foot Cream as both contain urea and are deeply hydrating.

Mavala Hydro Repairing Cream

Eucerin UreaRepair Plus 10% Urea Foot Cream

When the Humidity Hits – These Products Stop Frizz Before It StartsWhen the Humidity Hits

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It All Starts in the Shower

The Signature Collection prepares and seals the hair from the inside out. The Shampoo uses botanical juices from the Amazon to even out porosity – the open cuticle structure that makes har most susceptible to humidity. Our Signature Conditioner, formulated at pH 4.0-5.0, closes the cuticle on contact. Not coated. Not Masked. Structurally sealed.

Clinically proven to reduce breakage up to 89% from the first application of Iles Signature Shampoo + Signature Conditioner.

The ‘It Girl’ Hair Serum

The Finishing Serum is your all-weather protection. Pracaxi Seed, also sourced from the Amazon, penetrates the fiber and tames frizz at its structural source. Silk Extract seals the surface and delivers what Wendy calls an organic memory – activated by heat, retained through weather. Protection against humidity, static, UV, extreme cold, and color fade.

Apply it to wet hair before styling, then to dry hair daily to refresh.

Create A Protective ‘Humidity Halo’

Curly hair is naturally more porous – and so it absorbs moisture faster, frizzies and loses definition more quickly than straight hair. The Iles Formula Curl Revive Spray was formulated specifically for this. Its weightier cashmere texture wraps each curl in protective humidity halo, blocking moisture from penetrating the shaft while preserving definition, bounce, and shape.

Reset Between Washes

Humidity doesn’t just trike on wash day. The Rinseless Root Refresh is our waterless formula that refreshed and volumizes roots between washes, without powder, without residue, without exposing freshly styled hair to water. When the forecast changes, your hair doesn’t have to.