Are you a personal stylist or an aspiring one? Then, you must read this blog post! Today, I will show you six must-read books for personal stylists. I am an avid reader, making us better business owners, people, and stylists. So, let’s dive into these books!
First up, we have “The Social Psychology of Getting Dressed.” Yes, it’s a textbook, but it’s worth it. This book is packed with so much detail and studies about the history and origin of the style. You can get it on Amazon, and it’s worth the extra cost.
Next, we have “You Are What You Wear: What Your Clothes Reveal About You.” Dr. Jennifer Baumgardner dives into a deep psychological analysis of clients she’s worked with. If you clean out any closets for your clients, this book is a must-read.
Book number three is “The Psychology of Fashion.” It’s an easy read that delves into the psychology of fashion with great studies and terminology.
“The Fabric for Fashion Swatch Book” is the fourth book on our list. It’s not a page-turner, but it’s a great resource for stylists. Clients can be particular about the fabrics they put on their bodies, and it’s crucial to understand the different fabrics.
Now, let’s discuss my book, “Style Therapy: 30 Days to Your Signature Style.” I wrote this book for the average woman who wants to take her style from no style to incredible in 30 days. It’s a blueprint for how I work with clients, so if you want to learn from the queen of personal styling, grab a copy!
Last but not least, we have “Dress Your Best Life.” This book has great reviews, and the author is dubbed “The Dress Doctor” by The New York Times. It’s all about using fashion psychology to take your look and your life to the next level.
Reading is essential for personal growth, and as a stylist, it’s crucial to keep up with the latest trends, styles, and techniques. So, grab these books and start reading. I promise they will make you a better stylist and a better person!
How Natural Skincare Supports Skin During Perimenopause
If you’re around the age of 40 and starting to notice changes to your skin’s behaviour, you could be about to board the Perimenopause rollercoaster. The transitional phase leading up to menopause can bring many uncomfortable symptoms as hormone levels begin to shift – from mood swings to hot flashes and even skin sensitivities.
While this is definitely not a fun time and an experience that can often not be avoided, there are natural ways you can soothe and comfort your skin as your body transitions into this next stage of life. Let’s explore how organic skincare can gently relieve common perimenopausal skin symptoms and why taking a natural and gentle approach is so important.
Why Your Skin Changes During Perimenopause
Perimenopause often comes with similar challenges to those we experience throughout our teens. Fluctuating hormones can come with a wide range of symptoms thanks to a decline in estrogen.
Estrogen can have a significant impact on our overall skin health and as levels decline it’s common to notice thinner and dryer skin that is more prone to irritation. Similarly to the “moody teen” stage, those experiencing perimenopause may also find themselves emotional, irritable, gaining unexplained weight and noticing changes in their skin health.
Every woman experiences perimenopause differently and at different ages, but here are the most common symptoms:
Common Symptoms of Perimenopause
Menstrual Changes including irregular and skipped periods
Hot flashes and night sweats
Mood swings, increased anxiety and a lower stress threshold
Difficulty concentrating
Trouble falling and staying asleep
Dry skin, itchy skin and an increase in breakouts
Thinning hair
Sudden weight gain and bloating (particularly around the abdomen)
Natural Ingredients That Calm and Nourish Perimenopausal Skin
While there’s no magic solution to completely avoid perimenopausal symptoms, there are some natural skin allies that can help to alleviate some of the discomfort.
Rosehip Seed Oil
Known as one of the best age-defying ingredients, rosehip seed oil helps to repair and rejuvenate skin. Containing high levels of essential fatty acids—including oleic, linoleic and linolenic—it also contains vitamins A and C which are both vital for the maintenance of normal, healthy skin and collagen production. Give your skin a nourishing hit of rosehip seed oil daily with LAMAV’s Marula Oil Cleanser. Containing a purifying blend of natural oils that cleanses the skin while gently dissolving makeup and impurities – you’ll enjoy clean skin without the irritation. The nourishing, antioxidant-rich formula enhances skin’s natural repair and keeps the lipid barrier intact, restoring moisture balance and healthy glow as you cleanse.
Use as a makeup remover or for a full double cleanse every night. Follow with LAMAV’s bamboo cleansing cloth and makeup remover wipes to remove residue and reveal a soft and glowing complexion.
Aloe Vera
Cooling, calming, and packed with antioxidants, Aloe Vera is a well-known natural skin soother that can help to instantly cool down the feeling of a hot flash while delivering hydration and soothing dry skin. Used for medicinal purposes in several cultures for centuries, Aloe Vera is now well-known as a natural remedy for skin irritation, dry skin, sunburn relief and as a hydrating ingredient in skincare formulations. It has an incredible ability to retain moisture and soothe the skin while delivering skin-loving nutrients including Vitamin A, C and E.
Find this hero ingredient inLAMAV’s Hydra Calm Cream Cleanser. Our ultra-rich cleansing cream is formulated withAloe Vera Leaf Juice and Chamomile Extract along with Avocado andCamellia Oil to soothe and calm irritated skin as you cleanse. The addition of EssentialFatty Acids from Açai Oil also assists to repair stressed skin while providing comfort to dry, irritated skin.
Chamomile
Chamomile is well known for its calming, soothing and anti-inflammatory properties and is a popular drink of choice prior to bed to calm the body and mind before you attempt to get some shut eye. Topically, its antibacterial properties also make it beneficial for calming acne flare ups and some studies have shown that chamomile’s strong anti-inflammatory and antimicrobial properties can enhance skin barrier function and reduce symptoms of redness and irritation.
Shea Butter
Ideal for mature skin experiencing perimenopausal dryness, shea butter is loaded with fatty acids and vitamin E to soften and protect the skin barrier. Studies show that it also possesses powerful anti-inflammatory properties and may be effective in the treatment of eczema.
Find this super hydrator in LAMAV’s Hyaluronic Moisture Cream. This moisture-locking ultra-hydrating day cream delivers a radiant and visibly plump glow. Formulated with Hyaluronic Acid, Bisabolol and Shea Butter which helps to maintain hydration and moisture levels.
Omega Oils
Omega Oils are rich in essential fatty acids which are key components of healthy skin – supporting the skin barrier to keep environmental stressors out and lock moisture in. A healthy lipid barrier is essential for repairing and strengthening sensitive skin. Omega 3 Fatty Acids are also rich in anti-inflammatory properties and can assist to calm irritation while improving hydration – a huge benefit to anyone experiencing dry and sensitive skin throughout perimenopause.
Soothe and plump perimenopausal skin with LAMAV’s Omega 3, 6, 7 & 9 Antioxidant Oil. This antioxidant-rich oilcontains 100% pure actives to deliver a concentrated burst of moisture and essential fatty acids that will help to strengthen and smooth the skin’s surface.
Magnesium
Magnesium offers abundant health and age defence benefits and is an essential mineral required for our body’s overall health. Throughout perimenopause, introducing a magnesium supplement (as directed by your healthcare provider) along with topical application may ease some of the following symptoms:
Ease Tired Muscles, Cramps and Migraines – Hormonal changes through perimenopause can lead to increased muscle tension, headaches and migraines. Magnesium’s link to supporting nerve control along with its anti-inflammatory benefits may reduce the frequency and intensity of tense muscles and migraines.
If you’re looking to boost your magnesium intake topically, LAMAV’s organic tanning range is infused with magnesium to deliver skin benefits along with a healthy glow.
Rose Water
More than just a pretty petal, Rose Water offers many skin benefits throughout perimenopause. The anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties in Rose Water offer calming relief to irritated skin. It also offers hydration along with skin balancing benefits that will be a welcome relief to anyone battling skin that is both dry and experiencing breakouts.
In addition to physical benefits, the scent of rose has been linked to reduced levels of cortisol and may assist to promote a sense of calm. Using rose water via a toner will also deliver an instant cooling effect to offer some relief during hot flashes or night sweats. Keep LAMAV’s Rose Hydrating Mist Toner on your bedside table for those pesky night sweat moments and put one in your handbag for refreshing top ups throughout the day.
LAMAV’s Hormone-Friendly Skincare Routine
If you’ve noticed changes in your skin such as dryness, sensitivity and unpredictable blemishes, it’s time to ditch the harsh active ingredients and go back to basics.
Morning Routine
Gentle Cleanser – LAMAV’s Hydra-Calm Cream Cleanser + Bamboo cleansing cloth (you can also skip cleanser and just do a gentle water wash with the bamboo cleansing cloth if your skin is feeling particularly sensitive)
Hydrating Toner – LAMAV’s Rose Hydrating Mist Toner after cleansing
Hydrating Serum – LAMAV’s Hyaluronic Hydra Max Serum (apply one pump while the rose hydrating mist toner is still damp on the skin)
SPF – Use a fragrance free SPF to avoid irritation.
Evening Routine
Double Cleanse – Remove the day’s impurities with LAMAV’s Marula Oil Cleanser. Finish a second cleanse with LAMAV’s Sweet Orange Balancing Cleanser for blemish prone skin or reach for our Hydra-Calm Cream Cleanser if your skin is particularly sensitive.
Hydrating Toner – LAMAV Rose Hydrating Mist Spray
Treat & Nourish – LAMAV’s Collagen Support Booster or Omega Antioxidant Oil
Seal – Use a rich night cream to lock everything in such as LAMAV’s Omega 3 Advanced Night Cream.
Weekly Facial Treatments: LAMAV’s Jojoba Exfoliant & Beauty Sleep Mask 2-3 times per week.
Body
If you’ve been neglecting the skin on your body, now is the perfect time to treat it with the nourishment it deserves. LAMAV’s Ayurvedic Body Oils offer more than just hydration for the skin, they were formulated to inspire self-care ritual to support your skin, body and mind. Supporting mental clarity, balancing emotions and enhancing serenity LAMAV’s Nourish Body Oil is also infused with nourishing essential oils and bio-actives that transform the appearance of dry, dull skin.
Lifestyle Considerations
No skincare product can fix what stress, poor sleep, or processed foods cause. Supporting your skin from the inside out is crucial for the health of your skin, and this is particularly true when your body is going through changes or stress.
This may sound obvious, however drinking 8-10 glasses of water per day is essential to keep skin hydrated
Increase your fatty acid intake through dietary choices. Incorporating food such as flaxseeds, walnuts, and leafy greens will help boost essential fatty acids from the inside out.
Exercise regularly to help regulate and prevent mood swings
Practice self-care with regular walks, meditation or breath work to reduce stress and increase quality sleep
Things to avoid during Perimenopause
During perimenopause, your skin is likely to be more sensitive and may become more reactive. It’s best to avoid the following in your skincare routine to minimise risk of irritation:
Perimenopause is a time to slow down and listen to your body. In addition to getting adequate sleep and avoiding stress, opting for Natural and Gentle Skincare products can offer soothing relief to changes in skin behaviour while encouraging self-care rituals that support mental balance.
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Update: November 2025: MERIT Beauty has just launched a new Sheen finish* in their Solo Shadow range! Scroll down for my review and swatches of all the new MERIT Solo Shadow Sheen shades along side all the original shades here.
MERIT’s Launch at Sephora UK
Merit Beauty’s most-loved products, from the Minimalist Stick to Flush Balm, are now available at Sephora. No more expensive shipping, and you can now try shades in-store before buying.
Now available in 6 sheen shades at MERIT* and Sephora*
Offers
Sephora UK Discount Code
Exclusive Sephora UK discount code for 20% off
Key Ingredients
Chamomile and calendula extracts – rich in antioxidants that help to soothe the eye area Magnolia bark extract – helps to smooth the appearance of skin Peptides – help to reduce the appearance of fine lines Sunflower seed oil – helps to nourish skin
MERIT Beauty Solo Shadow Shades & Swatches
There are six shades in the new MERIT Solo Shadow Sheen collection:
Iris – soft plum
Glazed – soft pink
Matchbook – soft burgundy
Sartorial – bronze
Surrealism – gold
Palladium – warm silver
MERIT Solo Shadow Review & Swatches – NEW Sheen Finishes
I have four of them here to show you – Iris, Glacé, Sartorial, Matchbook:
MERIT Solo Shadow Sheen IrisMERIT Solo Shadow Sheen GlaceMERIT Solo Shadow Sheen SartorialMERIT Solo Shadow Sheen Matchbook
MERIT Solo Sheen Swatches
MERIT Solo Shadow Sheen Swatches
There are eight shades in the matte collection:
Brun – deep brown
Midcentury – warm brown
Midnight – classic navy
Nelson – soft grey
Social – soft mauve
Studio – cool taupe
Vachetta – warm beige
Viper – warm green
Solo Shadow in BrunSolo Shadow in MidcenturySolo Shadow in MidnightSolo Shadow in NelsonSolo Shadow in SocialSolo Shadow in StudioOnly Shadow in VachettaSolo Shadow in Viper
These shadows are pretty easy to work with. They are nicely pigmented so start with a small amount and build and blend.
You can use your finger to apply these, however, I used the new MERIT Brush No. 2. This was enough product to cover both lids:
The new Brush No. 2. uses soft vegan bristles and has one fluffy end and one finer, more tapered end for more precise application along the lash line.
My Review of MERIT Solo Shadows Sheen & Matte
Check out this reel featuring the new Sheen shades with swatches of Iris, Glace, Sartorial and Matchbook, and also application of Matchbook:
MERIT Beauty Solo Shadow in Midcentury
What I love about these shadows is that they give the lids a lovely smooth look and they are easy to apply, blend and build.
They are genuinely long wearing and crease-proof. In fact, when I did the swatches, I had to use an oil cleanser to remove the colours from my arm because they had set down so well.
In spite of the long wear and super smooth finish they offer, they feel very light on the eyelids, and you can apply them and forget about them.
I have fairly oily eyelids, so shadows tend to crease on me even if they are crease resistant, like the new Rare Beauty Eyeshadow Sticks. However, the MERIT Beauty Solo shadows wear so beautifully.
I am really loving the new MERIT Solo Shadow Sheen shades, and the finish is super flattering. I think even if you are slightly scared of shimmers, these will work really well for you.
I do find with the Mattes that the formula does tend to dry out a touch over time, however, I haven’t had the Sheens long enough to be able to comment on how well they last. I do love their performance of ease of application, and I think they will all work beautifully for the festive season.
Where to Buy Merit Beauty in the UK
The MERIT Beauty Sephora UK launch means you can shop Merit Beauty at:
Sephora UK -online & in stores
MERIT website
If you want their gorgeous makeup bags which come as a free gift with the first purchase, make sure you shop from MERIT directly.
In August, Sean and I went with a couple of friends to Disneyland! I hadn’t been in a few years, so I obviously had to go all out with the nail art. I picked a few of my favorite characters, and painted them Tsum Tsum style on my nails.
On my left hand, we have Cogsworth, Buzz Lightyear, Donald, Sadness, and Goofy. I chose Pooh, Mike Wazowski, Mickey, Genie, and the White Rabbit for my right hand.
I made sure to put the easier characters on my right hand, since I was going to be doing the nail art with my left! I think my strategy worked out pretty well.
I did this set of nails in gel, which was helpful in that I could adjust things as necessary before curing the nail. Otherwise, my poor left hand would never have stood a chance! It needs all the assistance it can get.
Most of the detailing was done with Akzentz GelPlay gel paints. I truly use them all the time, for everything. If you do any gel art at all, I highly recommend investing in them (or at least a different brand of gel paints!).
Our trip to Disney was amazing. It was really neat to go on Tower of Terror one last time before they change it to the new Guardians of the Galaxy ride! And would you believe that this was the first time I had seen the fireworks show? What an amazing production!
In the skincare world, there are few ingredients as powerful as retinol. With so many products claiming to help improve skin health and reduce the appearance of acne breakouts or fine lines and wrinkles, it’s easy to get caught up in the long ingredient lists. With retinol, you won’t have to look any further to achieve glowing skin.
So what exactly is retinol? If you’ve ever asked yourself, “What does retinol do?”, you are not alone. There are many retinol benefits that are important to be aware of. The professionals atKate Somervillehave put together a foundational guide that delves into what retinol is, the top retinol skin benefits, and additional tips to help improve the appearance of your skin.
What is Retinol?
Retinol is a commonly used ingredient, but many people still do not know exactly what retinol is. At its base level, retinol is a form of Vitamin A. When placed on the skin’s surface, it is converted into retinoic acid. This skincare ingredient is available in a wide variety of over-the-counter products. When looking at various products containing retinol, you may also run across the term retinoids. To understand which form and potency of retinoic acid are in the skincare product you are using, you need to start with Retinol 101 – understanding the difference between retinol and retinoids.
The Difference Between Retinol and Retinoids
One nuance that can be confusing when looking at skincare products is the difference between retinol and retinoids. Are they the same thing? Are they different? In fact, retinol and its brand name productions like Retin-A are part of a family of drugs known as retinoids. This group of compounds consists of human-made derivatives of vitamin A. This has a variety of benefits when used on the skin, which include helping to minimize the appearance of wrinkles and other signs of aging.
The primary difference is that over-the-counter products contain a form of retinol in ester forms, which means that they are Vitamin A derivatives. Examples of retinol ester forms include retinyl palmitate, retinyl acetate, and retinyl linoleate. When these forms of retinol are placed on the surface of the skin, they must be converted into retinoic acid by the skin in order for the skin to be able to utilize it. The strength of the retinol is based on how many conversions the ester form of retinol takes to get to the retinoic acid form. The more conversions the retinol takes to be converted into retinoic acid that the skin can use, the weaker it is.
Prescription-based retinoids, such as RetinA or Tretinoin, have a much higher concentration of retinoic acid than over-the counter retinol products. The primary difference between retinol and prescription-based retinoids is their potency and the amount of retinoic acid they contain. With continued use of either product, many people see an improvement in their skin, though there is an initial adjustment period to increase tolerance. With this understanding in mind, it is now possible to explore five of the key benefits of retinol.
How Does Retinol Work?
Retinol is a key ingredient in many skincare products because of the significant benefits it delivers the skin. Topical retinol products are useful for many individuals to integrate into their regular skincare routine to help improve the appearance of their skin. Below are the top benefits of applying retinol as a part of your skincare routine.
Improves Skin Fullness
As we age, healthy skin loses some of its natural volume which contributes to the development of wrinkles and a face that looks more hollow than it used to. This decline in volume typically begins in your early to mid-30s so the sooner you start to use retinol products, the more effective they will be. Fortunately, when you apply retinol topically, like with aretinol vitamin C moisturizer, it helps to combat the appearance of wrinkles and hollowness by increasing the skin’s ability to retain moisture. As aging skin becomes more hydrated, your face will appear fuller and the skin smoother.
Exfoliates the Skin
Retinol can also help to exfoliate healthy skin, unclogging pores and sloughing away dead skin cells from the surface of the skin. Having clear pores allows other products to penetrate deeper into the skin, making them more effective. The benefits of exfoliation can also help reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles by buffing away the surface layers of skin, leaving fresher younger-looking skin exposed. Revealing these new layers of skin also aids in evening your complexion and minimizing the visibility of acne scarring.
Helps Soften Age Spots & Evens Skin Tone
Not only can retinol help to reduce the appearance of acne scars, but it can also aid in visibly softening age spots while addressing uneven skin tone and improving your complexion. You can even use our Retinol Eye Cream to help with the tightening of aging skin. Our Kate Somerville Skin Health Experts report that clinic clients with mild discoloration have seen a noticeable improvement after three to six months of regular use while more severe cases may require up to twelve months of use before you see significant results.
Tips for Using Retinol Products
As shown through the benefits above, retinol is one of the best anti-aging ingredients you can integrate into your skin routine. However, before doing so, it is important to be aware of some key tips for how to apply retinol anti-aging products to ensure that they are as effective as possible and your skin experiences minimal irritation. Below are a few tips to keep in mind when using pure retinol products.
Only use retinol products at night – Because retinol products trigger the skin to remove dead skin cells from the surface of the skin and replace them with newly regenerated skin cells, the skin can be more sensitive to sunlight. To prevent photosensitivity side effects, only use retinol products at night. If you must use retinol in the morning, make sure to apply sunscreen over the top of the product to avoid sun damage, although doing so should already be part of your daily routine skincare steps!
Follow the usage rule of thumb – You may wonder how frequently you should be using retinol products for them to be effective.Regardless of your age, retinol can be an extremely beneficial addition to your skincare routine. Consider starting with products like Retinol Vitamin C Serum or the KateCeuticals Resurfacing Overnight Peel.
Allow your skin type to adjust. Some skin is more sensitive to retinol than others, causing redness and other visible signs of irritation. Make sure you slowly ramp up your usage of retinol products so your skin can become accustomed to their presence. If your goal is to eventually use a retinol product 3 or 4 times per week, start with once or twice weekly before building up your frequency. This will minimize any irritation side effects
Upgrade Your Skincare Routine
At Kate Somerville, we recommend the new Mega-A Skin Transforming Serum to reach your skincare goals. This premium formula features Retinal, an advanced retinoid 11 times more effective than traditional Retinol, proven to smooth, firm, and renew your skin. Impressively, 100% of clinical testers reported feeling more hydrated skin after just four weeks. By integrating this powerful retinal serum into your routine, tailored to your unique skin needs and lifestyle, you’re setting the stage for a transformative journey toward renewed, radiant skin.
Looking for more advice to youthful-looking skin? Check out our topanti aging tipsfor skin!
We are almost at the end of summer and closet to Autumn. I wanted to close out this Season with my favorite summer beauty stars. There have been so many wonderful beauty launches and favorite beauty products that I have discovered. These are products that I am constantly grabbing during my busy summer season and carrying in my bag.
Join me and keep scrolling as I share my Summer Beauty favorites!
Makeup Summer Essentials
Makeup is my first beauty love. It is about that summer glow, light flush of color and lightweight complexion.
Summer Friday’s Lip Balm*
The Summer Friday’s Vanilla Beige lip balm has become a new favorite lip balm. It has a light neutral mauve tint with a delicious scent. This has become one of the best lip product of the summer. I take this with me everywhere and I can stop raving about how much I love this product. I will want to use the coffee flavor for the autumn Season.
Vacation INC Chardonnay Lip Oil*
This has been another obsession for me. I cannot get over the smell. It’s so soothing and comforting. The SPF 30 is a perfect protection from the sun. I am in love the with the caramel vanilla scent. It adds a natural glow to my lips and feels hydrating.
Get that bronze glow for your face with the Vacation INC Bronzing drops. That Sunkissed skin can be achieved with these easy to use drops. It has a lightweight, serum like texture easy for layering to build your desired level of bronze. It has a gorgeous cocoa scent that is lightweight and not overpowering.
There are so many ways to use these drops:
By itself for a natural glow
mixed with your favorite moisturizing for a dewy glow
mixed with your foundation to add some color to your light foundation
YSL All Hours Bronzer*
I picked out a shade too dark when I first received this bronzer but chose a shade lighter and it looked amazing. I love the texture, soft-shimmer finish and the way that it looks natural. I add it to where I want to achieve that natural touch of color. The Bronzer has skincare benefits and lasts all day.
Where can I find the YSL Bronzer?
The Virgin Skin Beauty Profession*
I love a lightweight foundation during the summer. This foundation is so versatile. I have been wearing raving about this foundation for so long. I love the hydration, skincare benefits and just the way it makes my skin glow and feel. I have raved about this foundation for so many years because I am impressed with the formula and the way I look in this foundation. Feel like my natural skin but smoother!
Cle de Peau Beaute Concealer
A product that I have been using for years is the Cle de Peau Concealer. It hides the tired eyes and naturally blends and hydrate my eyes. There is no caking with the Cle de Peau Concealer. It has works wonderfully for my textured skin and can be applied anywhere on the face to create a flawless canvas.
I am always excited about a Rare Beauty Launch. Their powder gives my face a silky smooth finish. It sets it all in without caking or taking away from my other makeup products. The applicator puff is so cute and helps create an easy application. Are you looking for a soft-blur finish? Try the Rare Beauty Powder to achieve your desired look!
Favorite Summer Blushes
There are so many blushes that I tried and love that I had to create a section just for my favorite Summer blushes. It is definitely the Summer of blushes. So many beautiful blushes that I may create a more extensive post about each blush that I have discovered, or rediscovered during the Summer Season.
Rare Beauty Soft Pinch Luminous Powder Blush *- this one is for the ones that love that bold luminous glow. You can tap it gently if you would love the beautiful color but are not seeking that bold look. The ones who love the bold blush look will love this one. It definitely matches the color payoff of their liquid blush. You can layer these with the liquid to create your own look.
Hourglass Unreal Liquid Blush* – a new launch from Hourglass Cosmetics. The packaging is so luxurious! You shake the the bottle and add a couple of drops on the hand and picking it up with a brush is my favorite way to apply the Hourglass blush. It is a hydrating, buildable formula. It comes in six different shades that will definitely have a shade for every liquid blush lover.
Fenty Beauty by Rihanna Cheeks Suede Waterproof Powder blush* – I have not tried the new Fenty blushes yet but definitely had to include these in a Summer Blush lineup. These are gorgeous – especially the shimmers. Fenty never ceases to amaze me with the stunning packaging and color payoff. I am eyeing the pink and purple shimmer shades: Dram Cla$$ and Wattabrat.
Lawless Pinch My Cheeks Soft-Blur Cream Blush *- soft and blurring to create a flawless flush of color. It doesn’t fade or melt. The Lawless Blush is a new favorite blush
Kosas Blush is Life Baked Talc-Free Blush – Kosas is the perfect summer makeup with their lightweight foundations, concealers and glowing products. Their new blushes has skincare loving ingredients that has dimensional colors to add a healthy flush of color.
Dior Rosy Glow Blush – have been using this one for over a year. It provides a soft and elegant pink that is illuminating and doesn’t make my texture skin appear more prominent. This shade is a lightweight that is perfect for those that are seeking to achieve a lightweight flush of color.
Skincare Summer Essentials
Charlotte Tilbury Glow Toner* and Charlotte Tilbury Magic Hydrating Mist *- Use my code feliceFAJ5M to save on your order
These two add a touch of hydrating to my skin that feels lightweight. My skin feels tight and dry after washing my face. I am on the verge of finishing my third bottle. A small amount adds enough hydration to prep my skin for the rest of my skincare. The Charlotte Tilbury hydrating mist is a perfect skincare prep and touchup throughout the day. The summer can be hot and my skin needs a touch of refreshing. This summer essential provides just enough hydration I need without giving it a oily hydration. A tip is that you can put it in your skincare fridge for a cooling touchup.
This Social Media Viral Sunscreen has become a new favorite. This sunscreen is so much fun to apply and it smells amazing. The texture feels lightweight and blends perfectly with a glowing finish. I can put it on my face and it feels gentle. It has a SPF of 30 which is a perfect level of SPF. It’s easy to apply anywhere on the go and blend where you need it the most. The smell is my new obsession – it brings me to paradise with the perfect blend of scents.
Where to buy the Vacation INC Whipped Sunscreen?
You can buy the Vacation INC Whipped Sunscreen at Ulta or Nordstrom
Medicube Skincare at Amazon*
This TikTok viral skincare has introduced me to Korean skincare. Medicube has given me a full introduction to KBeauty – a perfect skincare brand that gives me glass skin. They send me a big range of their skincare. I am still testing out some of their skincare. I am excited with each discovery. I will be sharing my favorite Medicube skincare that I am loving – my perfect routine.
All of these were gifted to me! I am sharing my favorites and I will continue to share the brand as I discover more!
Haircare Summer essentials
Haircare is about soft waves, hydrated hair, scalp care and hair repair. My favorite go to products are leaving conditioners, hair masks and as always a dry texturizing spray. My favorite Dry Texturizing spray is the ORIBE Dry Texturizing spray. It is definitely worth the price and you will not regret this investment on your hair! It creates an easy volume that I am in love with. In addition to hydration of the strands, I need a good touch up with a good dry Shampoo. My go to is the Amika Dry Shampoo – it’s an award-winning top selling dry shampoo. You can shop any Amika product with my code LYFESTILEBEAUTY to save on your Amika Purchase on the Amika Site. A good scalp serum is essential to achieve healthy hair. It starts deep within the root of the scalp. I am loving the way the new Living Proof Scalp serum* feels on my hair. It provides a gentle relief after consistent use over time helps create a healthy foundation for the hair by reducing hair fallout, grey hairs and promote fuller hair. Use my code Felice10 to save.
Fragrances Summer Essentials
I have shared a summer fragrance favorite in my previous post if you want to read a more extensive fragrance review. I am going to share my current fragrance layering technique. First, I start with a body spray and spray after applying a moisturizer. I spray the Nest Balinese Coconut spray* generously. Then, I follow with a perfume as the mid fragrance. I have been going in between Estee Lauder Bronzed Goddess or Dedcool Sunlit Bloom for this one. Finally, I finish with a soft fragrance and lightly spritz the soft fragrance to finish the scent. I have been using the Vacation by Vacation INC for this one. These cocktail of scents create the perfect summer Scent for me.
Final Thoughts
There were so many favorite beauty products that were timeless and new launches that I shared for my summer beauty favorites. Some of these I will definitely carry with me to the next season – Fall. Thank you for taking the time to read my recommendations.
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Items marked with an asterisk were gifted. As always, all my reviews are my own. This post contains affiliate links. This means that I will make a commission on any purchase you make when you click on one of my links.
Ever stood in front of your bathroom mirror clutching a bunch of skincare bottles and tubes thinking, “But what the heck goes first?” Don’t worry, you’re not alone.
Skincare layering can feel like a secret society only beauty editors and TikTok influencers have the password to. But today, we’re handing you the cheat sheet and the secret handshake.
Consider this your crash course in layering skincare the right way so you’ll never have to “um”, “ah”, or accidentally put your oil on before your serum again.
The Golden Rule of Skincare Layering
Go from thinnest to thickest: Watery → creamy → oily → balmy.
Think of it like breakfast: juice first, then the hearty stuff, then the toppings. (Pancakes optional, but highly encouraged).
This way, the lightweight formulas can sink in first and do their thing, while the heavier ones lock everything down.
The Woohoo Layering Lowdown
1. Cleanser
Morning and night, start with a clean slate. A good cleanse washes away SPF, sweat and the day’s shenanigans.
‘Cloud 9’ Deep Cleansing Balm 80g
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2. Toner or Mist
This is your skin’s first drink of the day. It drenches your cells with hydration so everything else layers on smoother.
3. Serum
The power player. Serums are made with tiny molecules that dive deep into the skin cells to tackle important jobs like brightening, calming, plumping and protecting.
Or choose targeted actives depending on your goals (hydration, balance, barrier support).
‘FG’ Serum 01 – Glow (ageing skin)
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4. Ultra Light Moisturisers (Gel Creams)
Whether oil goes before or after your moisturiser depends on the texture.
💡 Simple rule: If your moisturiser is light, apply it first, then oil. If it’s rich and buttery, go oil first, then cream.
5. Face Oil
Oils are brilliant for locking in hydration and keeping your skin bouncy.
‘Good Vibes’ Brightening Facial Oil (with Vitamin C)
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6. Moisturiser
The snuggly blanket that tucks everything in and seals all of the ingredients that came before. Keeps skin soft, smooth and supported.
‘Over the Moon’ Rich Repair Cream 50ml
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7. Don’t Forget SPF (AM Only)
Your morning’s final boss. Always, always, always finish with sunscreen. Even when it’s cloudy. Even if you’re just working from the couch near a window.
Woohoo’s Cheat-Sheet
If you can pour juice before pancakes, you can master skincare order. Keep it light-to-heavy, listen to your skin, and let our hydrating, all natural heroes do the hard work while you sit back and glow.
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I’m rounding up my staples and favorites by category. I tried to narrow each category down to my Top 3, but there are a few sections I have more than 3 favorites.
Best Primers
These are my favorite primers. I try to find ones that multi-task (ie has SPF, adds hydration or glow.
Best Foundation Formulas
I’ve split the foundation and skin tint bases into a few different categories based on formula.
Best Skin Tints/Sheer
Best Medium Coverage
Best Stick Foundations
Best Concealers
Best Setting Powders
I’ve split my favorites into pressed and loose versions. To this day I still prefer a pressed format for convenience, but I find that loose powder applied with a puff last longer.
Loose Powder Favorites
Laura Mercier Ultra-Blur Talc Free Translucent Loose Setting Powder – This is the setting powder formula that gets me the most compliments. Anytime I use Translucent or Rose people always say that my skin looks flawless. It’s really not these days but this powder really does work to blur the skin beautifully. I use the Makeup by Mario Powder Puff with this one.
YSL All Hours Hyper Blur Loose Setting Powder – I bought 02 Fair Medium back in April and really like it. It blurs, sets and doesn’t darken. I might try the Translucent formula since my skin tone is a bit lighter right now.
Pressed Setting Powders
Setting Spray Loves
I don’t find myself using a setting spray very often these days, but the ones I have tried and like are from Charlotte Tilbury, Makeup by Mario and NARS. All of these are lightweight with an ultra fine mist.
Best Bronzers
My bronzer favorites are still the same as they’ve been for years. I keep hoping for another new formulation to fall in love with, but I keep sticking with these for the tones and formula.
Contour
I tend to use bronzer as a contour instead of a traditional contour, but three I really like because of the tones
Best Blushes
Also split my recommendations between powder and cream/liquid. I usually prefer a powder format for lasting power.
Favorite Powder Formulas
Favorite Cream or Liquid Formats
Armani Luminous Silk Cheek Tint – This is still the best formula for a liquid blush. It’s flawless and long lasting. The shine shades are nice too, but the matte formula is better for lasting power. Review + swatches here.
Hourglass Unreal Liquid Blush wins for the best tones and formula. These are on the dewy side but this year my skin has been exceptionally dry so I’ve been loving them. Review + swatches here.
Rhode Pocket Blush – I still really love these. Freckle is the best everyday neutral. Swatches + review here.
Highlighter Loves
Eyeshadow Palettes
Best Cream Eyeshadow
Go-To Brow Products
My top four brow products are the:
I recently bought the ABH MicroStroke Detailing Brow Pen and love it. I’m still trying to master the application but after trying several pens and hating them all (some of the colors looked straight up green on me) a friend recommended the ABH one and she was 100% right about the tones and formula.
Mascara Favorites
I feel like I need to expand my mascara rotation this year. I’ve been sticking to three tried and true formulas which I still really love, but I think I need to change things up a bit.
Favorite Lipsticks
I have so many lipstick loves. It’s hard to narrow down my favorites, but if I had to pick my top 5:
Best Liquid Lipstick
I’m still not really into liquid lipsticks since most are matte and I prefer some kind of shine or gloss, but I do think Dior makes beautiful ones!
Favorite Tinted Lip Balms/Oils
This is another favorite category of mine. I’ll link the swatches I’ve posted of each formula.
Lip Liner
Best Lip Gloss Formulas
The best gloss formulas ranked by how often I wear them:
Favorite Makeup Tools
Quick mention on some tools that I really love that are available at Sephora.
Hourglass Travel Brush Set – I bought this several years ago during the Sephora Sale and it was 100% worth the splurge. This set includes the full-size options.
Ilia Brushes – These are SO under-rated, I really hope they make a full line of brushes. I think every one I’ve tried is 10/10 incredible.
Glossier Lip Pencil Sharpener – Not the most exciting tool, but this is the best sharpener I’ve found. The way they designed the container makes it perfect to carry in your makeup bag or for travel.
Makeup By Mario Powder Puff – Not all puffs are the same. Many of my favorites seem to have changed texture but the Makeup By Mario one is ultra soft and I love the size and shape.
Sephora Collection Brush Cleaner – This is the best cleaner to clean creams from your brushes (foundation, concealer, eyeshadow, blush etc.). Since it is spendy I recommend using the Dawn Powerwash Dish Spray first with a brush pad. For those stubborn creams I will then use the Sephora Brush Cleaner and it works wonders to remove cream products.
Sephora Collection Cotton – Another staple I swear by. I do love the plush cotton from other brands, but this one is my most-repurchased one.
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For as long as women have been enhancing their eyes, a debate has been ongoing about what the best mascara color should be: black or brown. There are many philosophies and schools of thought surrounding this conversation. It could be as simple as preference. Do you prefer brown with your fair skin for a more natural look? Do you think black contrasts your fair skin more and makes your lashes stand out?
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What’s the Difference Between Brownand Black Mascara?
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Tubing Mascara 101: Why Formula Matters More Than You Think
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Best Mascara Shade by Eye Color
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Best Mascara for Blue Eyes
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Best Mascara for Green Eyes
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Best Mascara for Hazel Eyes
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Best Mascara for Brown Eyes
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Best Mascara for Grey Eyes
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…because, let’s be honest—growing out bleached hair can be rough. You’ve got dry, damaged ends, awkward roots, weird color lines, and the constant temptation to either re-bleach or chop it all off.
But here’s the truth: it doesn’t have to suck.
With a little strategy and a whole lot of patience, you can grow out bleached hair without losing your mind… or your length.
Whether you’re going back to your natural color or just done with the damage, this post will walk you through 10 real, no-BS tips that actually make the process easier.
Sound good? Grab some deep conditioner and let’s dive in.
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What Actually Happens When You Grow Out Bleached Hair?
When you bleach your hair, the pigment inside each strand is stripped out, leaving it lighter… but also much weaker. That bleached hair doesn’t “unbleach” itself over time. It sticks around until it’s either trimmed off or grown out.
As your natural roots grow in, you’ll notice a clear divide between your soft, shiny, healthy new growth and the older, drier bleached sections. This line of demarcation can look harsh, especially if you went much lighter (like platinum or icy blonde).
Not only that, but the texture may feel totally different, and your styling habits will likely need to change. Bleached ends usually require more moisture, while your roots might get oily faster.
It’s a balancing act—but one that’s totally manageable with the right tools and tips.
10 Real Tips to Grow Out Bleached Hair Without Hating It
These practical, tested tips will help you look and feel better throughout the grow-out process.
No dramatic chops required.
#1. Get Regular Trims (Yes, Even While Growing It Out)
It may feel counterproductive to cut your hair when your goal is to grow it… but regular trims are key to maintaining healthy-looking hair and preventing split ends.
Split ends don’t just hang out at the tips—they can travel upward, breaking your hair and making it look thinner and more damaged.
👉 Aim for a light dusting every 8–12 weeks. This keeps your ends fresh, your style polished, and your hair less prone to breakage.
If you’re worried about losing too much length, tell your stylist you only want a micro-trim to maintain shape while keeping as much length as possible.
#2. Tone or Gloss to Blend the Color
One of the hardest parts of growing out bleached hair is that super-obvious root line. Luckily, there are ways to soften the contrast between your natural hair and your light ends without doing another full bleach job.
💡 Try a toning gloss, root smudgeor color-depositing conditioner to create a more blended, lived-in look.
Recommended products:
These options help bridge the color gap as your hair grows, making the grow-out line look intentional rather than “oops.”
#3. Deep Condition Religiously
Bleached hair tends to be thirsty… dry, porous, and in need of serious nourishment.
Deep conditioning treatments are your best friend right now. Use them at least once a week (or more if needed), alternating between protein-based masks (for strength) and moisture masks (for softness and shine).
Favorite masks:
For a tip: wrap your hair in a warm towel or shower cap while the mask processes to boost absorption.
#4. Minimize Heat and Always Use Protection
Heat styling may help your hair look better short term, but it’s often what holds back long-term progress.
Try air-drying when possible, and if you do use heat tools, never skip heat protection. Even bleached hair that looks fine can have hidden damage that worsens over time.
Best heat protectants:
You don’t have to ditch heat completely—just use it mindfully and sparingly while your hair heals.
#5. Embrace Creative Styles That Camouflage the Grow-Out
Instead of fighting the contrast, find ways to style around it.
Braids
Half-up buns
Messy claw clips
Loose curls or beach waves
These all help blend the root area into the lighter ends, creating a dimensional, textured look that makes grow-out less obvious.
🌟Bonus: these styles also reduce the need for hot tools and are super on-trend.
#6. Switch Your Part or Add Bangs
This simple trick can make a huge difference in how your grow-out looks.
If you’ve been rocking a middle part with harsh roots peeking through, try flipping it to the side or doing a soft zig-zag. It breaks up the root line and instantly gives the illusion of a softer blend.
Want a bolder change? Add curtain bangs or a long fringe to distract from the contrast.
Just make sure your stylist knows you’re growing out bleached hair so they can cut strategically.
#7. Support Hair Growth From the Inside
Let’s be real: you can’t make your hair grow fasterbut you can absolutely make sure it’s growing at its best.
That means nourishing your body with hair-supporting nutrients like:
Biotin
Collagen
Omega-3s
Iron & Vitamin D
Supplements to consider:
Also, drink your water. Hydration plays a bigger role than people realize.
#8. Don’t Overwash and Skip Sulfates
Overwashing your hair can strip away the natural oils that keep your new growth strong and your ends protected.
Aim to wash 2–3 times per week max, and always use sulfate-free products to preserve moisture and color.
Great sulfate-free options:
Use dry shampoo on off days, and focus conditioner only on the ends to avoid greasy roots.
#9. Ditch the Comparison Game
You’re going to see influencers with perfect hairlines and salon-fresh blonde highlights… but chances are, they’re using extensions, filters, or getting professional touch-ups.
Growing out bleached hair takes time and patience, and it often looks messier in real life than it does on social media.
Give yourself grace, and remember: your hair is allowed to look “in progress.”
#10. Have a Long-Term Game Plan
Before you get fed up and impulsively re-bleach or dye it dark, ask yourself: what’s my actual goal?
Do you want your natural hair color back?
Are you aiming for healthier hair overall?
Planning to eventually get balayage or highlights again?
Knowing your destination helps you stay focused through the awkward middle stages. Work with your stylist to map out the steps so you can get there without regret.
Bonus: Should You Dye It Dark or Chop It Off?
Both are totally valid options—but they come with pros and cons.
Dyeing it darker can create a more blended look short-term, but it doesn’t necessarily restore health to your hair. Also, color over bleach can fade fast or look muddy.
Chopping it off gives you a fresh start, but only do it if you’re emotionally ready for shorter hair.
If you’re unsure, wait 48 hours before making any big decisions. Sometimes a good hairstyle and a deep treatment are all you need to feel better.
FAQs About Growing Out Bleached Hair
How long does it take to grow out bleached hair?
Expect 18–24 months to fully grow out shoulder-length bleached hair, depending on your cut and growth rate.
Can I keep bleaching my roots during grow-out?
You canbut it resets the process. If your goal is to stop bleaching, commit to letting your natural roots grow in.
What’s the fastest way to grow out bleached hair?
There’s no fast fix, but supporting your body with nutrition, hydration, and gentle hair practices will speed up healthy growth.
Should I cut my bleached ends off right away?
Only if you want to. Trimming gradually while using deep treatments can restore your ends until you’re ready to cut.
Will my hair go back to normal?
Yes! Once you grow out the bleached parts and take good care of your new growth, your hair will feel stronger, shinier, and healthier than ever.
Final Thoughts
Growing out bleached hair doesn’t have to feel like a never-ending beauty crisis.
With the right mindset, nourishing care, and smart styling hacks, you can transition into stronger, healthier hair without constantly wanting to give up.
This phase is temporary—but the results? Long-lasting confidence in your natural, healthy hair.
✨ Ready to take the plunge? Start with one of the deep conditioners above and give your strands the love they deserve.
Until next time,
🌟 Your Turn:Do you have any other tips for growing out bleached hair? Are you going to try any of these? Drop your thoughts in the comments section below! 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼
